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Thursday, December 30, 2010

機會一直在您身邊。。。

有一個人,有天晚上碰到一個天使,這個天使告訴他說,有大事要發生在他身上了,他有機會得到很大的財富,在社會上獲得卓越的地位,並且娶到一個漂亮的妻子。


這個人終其一生都在等待這個奇蹟的承諾,可是甚麼事也沒發生。這個人窮困地渡過了他的一生,最後孤獨的老死了。


當他上了天堂,他又看到了那個天使,他對天使說:「你說過要給我財富,很高的社會地位和漂亮的妻子的,我等了一輩子,卻甚麼也沒有。」



天使回答他:「我沒說過那種話。我只承諾過要給你機會得到財富,一個受人尊重的社會地位和一個漂亮的妻子,可是你卻讓這些從你身邊溜走了。」



這個人迷惑了,他說:「我不明白你的意思。」



天使回答道:「你記得你曾經有一次想到一個好點子,可是你沒有行動,因為你怕失敗而不敢去嘗試。」



這個人點點頭。天使繼續說:「因為你沒有去行動,這個點子幾年後被給了另外一個人,那個人一點也不害怕地去做了,



你可能記得那個人,他就是後來變成全國最有錢的那個人。



還有,你應該還記得,有一次城裡發生了大地震,城裡大半的房子都毀了,好幾千人被困在倒塌的房子裡,你有機會去幫忙拯救那些存活的人,可是你卻怕小偷會趁你不在家的時候,到你家裡去打劫,偷東西,你以這作為藉口,故意忽視那些需要你幫助的人,而只是守著自己的房子。」




這個人不好意思地點點頭。天使說:「那是你的好機會去拯救幾百個人,而那個機構可以使你在城裡得到多大的尊榮和榮耀啊!



天使繼續說:「你記不記得有一個頭髮烏黑的漂亮女子,那個你曾經非常強烈地被吸引的,你從來不曾這麼喜歡過一個女人,之後也沒有再碰到過像她這麼好的女人。




可是你想她不可能會喜歡你,更不可能會答應跟你結婚,你因為害怕被拒絕,就讓她從你身旁溜走了。」




這個人又點點頭,可是這次他流下了眼淚。




天使說:「我的朋友啊!就是她!她本來應是你的妻子,你們會有好幾個漂亮的小孩,而且跟她在一起,你的人生將會有許許多多的快樂。」



我們每天身邊都會圍繞著很多的機會,包括愛的機會。可是我們經常像故事裡的那個人一樣,總是因為害怕而停止了腳步,結果機會就溜走了。




我們因為害怕被拒絕而不敢跟人們接觸;我們因為害怕被嘲笑而不敢跟人們溝通情感;我們因為害怕失落的痛苦而不敢對別人付出承諾。



不過,我們比故事裡的那個人多了一個優勢。那就是我們還活著,我們可以從現在起抓住那些機會。


读后感:
機不可失,時不再來  - Opportunity seldom knocks twice.



机会从来没有放弃过我们,

只是很多时候是我们自己选择了放弃机会…

Wednesday, December 29, 2010

用世界76种语言 说我爱你



汉语:我爱你




德语:Ichliebedich.



法语:Jet'aime/Jet'adore



希腊语:S'agapo



犹太语:Aniohevotach(maleo***male)



匈牙利:Szeretlek



爱尔兰:taimi'ngraleat



爱沙尼亚:Minaarmastansind



芬兰:Minrakastansinua



比利时佛兰芒语:IKzieugraag



意大利语:tiamo,tivogliobene



拉丁语:Teamo,Vosamo



拉托维亚:EsteviMilu



里斯本:lingogramo-tebue',chavalinha



立陶宛:TaveMyliu



马其顿:Tesakam



马耳他:Inhobbok



波兰语:KochamCie,Jaciekocham



葡萄牙:Euamo-te



罗马尼亚:Teiubesc,TeAdor



荷兰:IKhouvanjou



英语:Iloveyou



捷克:Milujite



丹麦:Jegelskerdig



阿尔萨斯:Ichhoandichgear



亚美尼亚:YesKeziSeeroomyem



巴伐利亚:Imogdinarrischgern



保加利亚:ahsteobicham



西班牙加泰隆语:T'estim



克罗地亚:Volimte



阿塞疆语:Menseniserivem



孟加拉:Amitomaybhalobashi



缅甸:chitpade



柬埔寨:Bongsalangoun



菲律宾:MahalKita,IniibigKita



印度古吉拉特语:Hoontanepremkarunchuun



北印度语:maintumsepyarkartahoon



印度尼西亚:Sajakasihsaudari



日本:あいしてる



朝鲜:???



爪哇语:akutresnomarangsliromu



老挝:Khoihukchau



马来语:sayaCintaMu



马来西亚:SayaCintamu



蒙古语:bichamdhairtai



尼泊尔:Matumilaimayagarchu,Matimilaimanparauchu



波斯语:Toradostdaram



他加禄语:Mahalkita



南非语:EkhetjouliefEkisliefvirjou



加纳:Medowo



埃塞俄比亚阿姆哈雷地区:Eneewedechalu(forladies)



Eneewedehalwe(formen)



阿拉伯语:AnaAhebak(toamale)



ArabicAnaahebek(toafemale)



瑞士德语:IchlibDich



克里奥尔语:Monkontanou



豪萨语:Inasonki



肯尼亚班图语:Nigwedete



马达加斯加语:tiakoianao



印度阿萨姆邦语:Moitomakbhalpau



南亚泰米尔语:Tamiln'anunnaikkathalikkinren



印度泰卢固语:Neenuninnupra'mistu'nnanu



泰国:Ch'anRakKhun



乌尔都语:Meintumhaypyarkartihun(womantoman)



Meintumhaypyarkartahun(mantowoman)



越南:Emye'uanh(womantoman)



Anhye'uem(mantowoman)



新西兰毛里语:kiahoahai



爱斯基摩:Nagligivaget



格陵兰岛:Asavakit



冰岛:e'gelskatig



阿尔巴尼亚:TDuaShume



俄罗斯:YavasIyublyu,YaTibiaLyublyu



塞尔维亚:VolimTe



斯洛文尼亚语:Ljubimte



西班牙:Teamo,Tequiero



瑞典:Jaglskardig



土耳其:Seniseviyorum



乌克兰:javaskokhaju



威尔士:Rwy'ndygarudi



亚述语:anabayanookh(femaletomale)



anabayinakh(maletofemale)



高加索切尔克斯语:wisecas

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Tuesday, December 28, 2010

原来,幸福是这样一个模样.. ♡ ♥

一直以来,



都不知道幸福长的什么样子,


直到你出现后才知道,


原来幸福是这样一个模样,


在我冲好凉时,


你把我手上的吹风筒抢走,


把我湿湿的头发给吹干...


在每一个孤独的夜晚中,



不必我打电话去找你,


你会自动打电话给我,


一直聊到我睡着后,



你才舍得挂断电话,


托着疲惫的身躯去睡觉...


在我失意的时候,

我只想一个人静一静,


因为我不想让你为我担心,


也不懂得表达自己的心情,


你却总爱在这个时候,


找些无谓的事情与我吵架,


让我发飙,让我骂你,


也让我在生气时,


把一切不开心的事情都说出来了....



和你在一起后,


才真正明白,


原来幸福可以很简单,


简单到只是你的一个问候,


简单到只是你的一个关心,


简单到只是你的一个小动作...


幸福就是这样一个模样,


不必有奢华的铺设,


只需要平凡中的一丝不平凡,


就能让人会心一笑了...


不必羡慕那些看起来很幸福的情侣们,


因为很多时候,那样的幸福是做出来的...


好好珍惜你身边的那个人吧,


或许你们时常都是吵吵闹闹的,


但未尝不是件好事呢?


有时候,肯留下来陪你吵架的人,


才是真正爱你的那一个,


如果不爱你,何苦和你吵得没完没了呢?

女生想要的愛情【女孩の心聲】

女生想要的愛情



或許想要的是 轟轟烈烈的愛情



或許想要的是 簡簡單單的愛情



或許想要的是 平平凡凡的愛情



但她們最想要的是 一段天長地久的愛情




♥ 其實女生很簡單



她只想要你的呵護



她只想要你的愛護



她只想要你的關心



她只想要你的在乎



因為她們 最在意的 是她們最愛的男生



♥ 女生很容易受傷


有時候 男生的一句 壓迫感



有時候 男生的一句 沒有空



女生都會想 是自己的錯嗎?



♥ 當女生愛著一個人時



他跟另一個她的任何舉動 都會讓她感到心痛



他跟另一個她的眉來眼去 都會讓她感到心酸



因為女生想想愛的男生心中只有她一個



♥ 其實女生很容易哄


她期待的是男生的一句 寶貝 我愛你



她期待的是男生的一句 寶貝 我想你



因為女生很想男生在乎 在意她



♥ 女生永遠是被動的



因為她希望男生會牽起她的手



因為她希望男生會輕輕的抱她



因為她希望男生會說聲我愛你




女生想要在最愛的男生心中是最重要的



♥ 女生會經常跟男生說 對不起




因為她怕男生會生氣



因為她怕男生會放棄




因為她在乎這份感情



♥ 女生很喜歡一個人流淚



因為她不想讓你看到她受傷的一面



因為她最想要讓你看到最堅強的她



因為她想最愛的男生 永遠都快快樂樂




♥ 女生最不想的 最會受傷的



最愛的人說起他曾愛過的女生



她們會一個人偷偷的哭 或許她不說出來 為她想在你心中是最堅強的




♥ 女生最想要的是一場永不分手的戀愛



因為她想認認真真的去愛一個人



因為她想被一個人認認真真的愛



女生會永永遠遠的愛著自己愛的人



♥ 女生最想要的他


只有彼此

沒有背叛

沒有分離

沒有心痛

最想的是永永遠遠在一起



♥ 同樣的 要學懂如何去愛


真正的愛是不能用文字表達



真正的愛是不能用語言表達



因為 只有感覺才可以知道什麼是愛



♥ 所以男生們


就算吵架

就算生氣


男生都不要輕易的說出分手


要好好珍惜在你面前的女生


給她一個擁抱 讓她感到你的溫暖


把這篇日誌轉帖出去 讓身旁朋友體會吧



♥ 祝所有的情侶們 都能長長久久…………

Monday, December 27, 2010

大部分男人都没想过的事~【男生 vs 处女 + 老婆】你想过这事情了吗?

[名字纯属虚假]


小杰和小明是中学时的朋友...

后来,他们一起上了大学...

虽然 感情还 不算很好,

但也一起租了一间房子...

有一天,小杰认识了一位女生,叫小雪...

小 杰喜欢上 小雪,

常常有事没事的找小雪...

小雪也对小杰有好感...

不久后,两人便开始交往了...

交往了几个月,学校就开始大放假...

这一天,小明需跑回家乡一趟,

大概三天才回来...

房子就只剩下小杰...



小明走后,

小雪也有过来陪小杰看戏,弄些吃的之类的...

也会帮忙小杰做家 务...

但 是小雪没有过夜,小杰也没要求小雪留下...

后来小明回来了,

很明显家里 有着曾经被女人打扫过的痕迹...

小明坏坏的问小杰:

“诶,是不是趁我不在,就把小雪带回家了啊你?”

小杰被同伴这么一问,马上反驳说:

“喂, 你这是什么表情嘛?

是,我有带过她来,但她没过夜!我们什么也没做...”

“真的什么都没做?

我们都是室友了,用不着隐瞒啦!”


“真的没有啦!拜托!”

“哈!那你 真是笨啦!难得你有机会却没好好利用!”


“我不是这样随便的人,好不好...”


“哎呀兄弟,是男人都会要的啦!什么随便不随便的...”


“喂,小雪很乖 的啊!她说她从来没有那个的啊...”


“哇? 处女?是不是的你!这样也不吃?”


“什么啦!哪里可以乱吃!”


“哈 哈吃了再打算啦!真是的你... 不要和你讲了啦!不是男子汉一个...”

小明心里嘲笑小杰,

真的是错失一 个大好机会...

现在都什么社会了,还不敢吃?哈哈!够笨啦...


后来的日子,每次小杰和小雪出去约会回来时,

小明都 会坏坏的暗示说,“又没吃啊?哈哈!”

而小杰每次只丢了一个眼神过去...

虽然快 一年了,

可是小杰和小雪因为某些原因分手了...

但小雪有时依然会来小杰他们的家里坐坐,

聊功课什么的...

功课比较好的小明常常教小雪功课,

结果却日久生情...

小明暗示小杰会不会介意自己和小雪交往,

小杰假假生气, 丢了一块枕头过去,说:

“要死啊你!抢我以前的女朋友?好好对待她知道了没!”

“哈哈!是啦是啦...”

过 了小明三个月的追求,小雪便答应和小明交往了...

日子过得很快,一下子他们终于都毕业了...

而小明的个性 和小雪很配,所以他们感情很稳定...

结果过了半年,

已经交往三年的小明和小雪决定结婚了...

小杰和他新的 女朋友也捧场了...

小明当天虽然有点醉,

但他永远记得小杰当晚对他说的一句话...


“明啊,哈哈!恭喜你啊!”

“杰?哈哈!谢谢!多久没看到你了?”

“嘿,很久了吧?想不到你今天真的结婚了!还 比我早了一步!”


“哎呀放心你会赶上的啦!”


“哈哈!不过现在想起来,


你会不会感激我当年没 有把你老婆给吃了?”


小明这时突然好像领悟到什么...


很感动的拍了拍小杰的肩 膀,说:


“谢谢你当年有好好的照顾我老婆......”


~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~




世上的男人,
都希望婚前可以尝一口禁果...

但世上的男人,

也 都希望自己未来的老婆还是个处女...

在吃禁果的时候,男人往往没有想过,

他们或许在搞着别人的女人...

而他们更没有想过的是,

别的男人或许在搞着自己的女人...


不想别人犯你妻,


就别先犯人妻...


现在领悟,还来得及...


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Monday, December 20, 2010

Reduce Your Risks of Osteoporosis



Reduce Your Risks of Osteoporosis
Osteoporosis is a bone weakening condition that affects both men and women. Osteoporosis is often called the "silent disease" because bone loss occurs without symptoms and is usually not diagnosed until bones become so weak that a sudden strain, bump, or fall causes a hip fracture or a vertebra to collapse.
Reducing your risks
Many factors contribute to the development of osteoporosis some are those that you can change other you cannot.
Risk factors you cannot change:
  • Gender - If you are a woman, your chances of developing osteoporosis are much greater because women have less bone tissue and lose bone more rapidly than men do.
  • Age - Although osteoporosis can strike at any age, the older you are, the greater your risk. As you age, your bones become less dense and bone loss is most rapid in the first few years after menopause.
  • Body size - Small, thin-boned women are at greater risk.
  • Ethnicity - Caucasian and Asian women are at highest risk. African-American and Latino women have a lower but significant risk.
  • Family history - People whose parents have a history of fractures also seem to have reduced bone mass and may be at risk for fractures.
Risk factors you can change:
  • Diet - A healthy diet rich in important nutrients such as calcium, vitamin D and magnesium are needed for strong bones. The average adult age 19-50 should consume 1000 mg of calcium each day. Dark leafy green vegetables, canned fish, milk, yoghurt, cereals, nuts and seeds are good source of calcium.
  • Medications - The long-term use of certain medications can lead to a loss of bone density. It is important to discuss the use of these drugs with your physician, and not to stop or alter your medication dose on your own.
  • Lifestyle - Exercise is an essential factor in achieving and maintaining bone health. Regular physical activity has shown to help maintain and even increase bone density and can protect against age-related bone loss in maturing adults.
  • Smoking - In case you need another reason to stop smoking, consider this: when compared to nonsmokers, women who smoke have lower levels of estrogen and frequently go through menopause much earlier. Smokers also may absorb less calcium from their diets.
  • Alcohol - Excessive consumption of alcohol. Men and women who drink excessively are more prone to bone loss and fractures.

Friday, December 17, 2010

hui master风水师慧戒师傅讲解2011十二生肖运程


hui master风水师慧戒师傅讲解2011十二生肖运程—鼠


hui master风水师慧戒师傅讲解2011十二生肖运程—牛


hui master风水师慧戒师傅讲解2011十二生肖运程—虎


hui master风水师慧戒师傅讲解2011十二生肖运程—兔
 

hui master风水师慧戒师傅讲解2011十二生肖运程—龙


hui master风水师慧戒师傅讲解2011十二生肖运程—蛇


hui master风水师慧戒师傅讲解2011十二生肖运程—马


hui master风水师慧戒师傅讲解2011十二生肖运程—羊


hui master风水师慧戒师傅讲解2011十二生肖运程—猴


hui master风水师慧戒师傅讲解2011十二生肖运程—鸡


hui master风水师慧戒师傅讲解2011十二生肖运程—狗


hui master风水师慧戒师傅讲解2011十二生肖运程—猪

Thursday, December 16, 2010

錢的浪漫(爆笑版)

男人


沒有錢的浪漫,我可以牽著妳的手漫步在滿佈白沙的海灘;



1元的浪漫,我可以在冷清的公共電話亭旁撥通電話關心妳;



10元的浪漫,我可以在炎熱的夏日買支冰棒讓妳消暑解熱;



100元的浪漫,我可以在寒冷的夜晚買份關東煮溫暖妳手心;



1,000元的浪漫,我可以陪妳逛西門町買妳喜歡的衣服;



10,000元的浪漫,我可以買手機給妳,讓我倆幸福的聲音零距離;



100,000元的浪漫,我可以帶妳飛往妳所嚮往的國度;



1,000,000元的浪漫,我可以買部跑車載妳四處兜風遊玩無障礙;



10,000,000元的浪漫,我可以許\諾給妳一個生活無匱的未來




100,000,000元的浪漫,我可以選很多的女人,至於你嘛..................排隊吧!



 
读后感:形容的太貼切了人,果然不能太有錢!?

Wednesday, December 15, 2010

男人对女人的需求就十分专一

【0 - 5 岁的时候】


女→妈妈。

男→妈妈。



【6 - 10 岁的时候】

女→不是讨厌的男孩子就可以了!

男→可以陪我欺负女孩子的男孩。



【11 - 15 岁的时候】

女→十五六七八岁的大哥哥,千万不要同年纪那班野蛮人!

男→足球,篮球,网球,乒乓球……



【16 - 20 岁的时候】

女→我要十七八岁差不多年纪大家都称赞的「大帅哥」!

男→女人,女人就可以了!



【21 - 25 岁的时候】

女→25-29岁的成熟男人,要有事业基础,有品味,才华……

男→20-24岁漂亮又有身材的女人。



【26 - 30 岁的时候】

女→仍是坚持要比自己年纪大的男人。

男→20-24岁漂亮又有身材的女人。



【30 - 40 岁的时候】

女→心灵契合的好男人。

男→20-24岁漂亮又有身材的女人



【40 - 50 岁的时候】

女→男人。

男→20-24岁漂亮又有身材的女人。



【50 - 60 岁的时候】

女→可与他终老的男人。

男→20-24岁漂亮又有身材的女人。



【70 - 80 岁的时候】

女→五六十岁时找到的那个男人,最好不需要自己照顾的。

男→20-24岁漂亮又有身材的女人。



【80 - 90 岁的时候】

女→比自己迟死的男人。

男→虽然我已经老花眼,看不清楚……但是我还是希望是20-24岁……



总结:

男人打从20岁后……对女人的需求就十分专一.........................................

Saturday, December 11, 2010

How To Get Promoted : 9 Obvious And Often Not Practiced Tips

It would be safe to say that you would have probably entertained the question of how to get promoted even before you graduated or left school. In my chats with juniors from my industry, I am often asked this question which I gladly answer. However, I sense they simply want short cuts to the next level.




These experiences pushed me to pen these 9 obvious but often not practiced tips on how to get promoted. Start internalizing these tips and make them part of your career plan. Before you know it, you would have moved up to the next level.



One main reason for people to ignore these obvious practices on how to get promoted is because they seem very long term. But they are not at all. All you need to do is to consistently DO them. I have broken them down to 3 main sections: Plan, Attitude and Action.



PLAN

1. Where Are You and Why Are You There? How to get promoted?

First you will need to have a reference point. Ask yourself, where are you now? And why are you there? Is there any key strength that has brought you where you are now that you can continue to leverage for the next promotion?


Are there any weaknesses that you really need to correct before the next promotion is possible? These questions, while simple are strategic. It allows you to check your strengths and weaknesses. It forces you to access what has worked and what will work to get you promoted.


2. Where Do You Want To Be and How Do You Get There?

You obviously need to have an objective and a plan. Just saying that you want to get promoted is not enough. You need to be clear on your next position. Is it a promotion to a different department or a different branch? Write this down.


Now that you have written this down, how do you plan to get that promotion? Develop a plan for to achieve that objective. If you are lucky, you can even work this out with your immediate boss. Most bosses do not promise that promotion at such discussions but at the very least you get an idea of what are the expectations.


ATTITUDE










3. Put Pride, Passion and Belief In Everything You Do

People who get promoted are those that have a sense of pride in their work. And they take pride in their work. They are driven by genuine enthusiasm and desire to do their best no matter how small the job.



They believe in themselves and they believe in the bigger goals of their unit or department and company. How to get promoted? Ask yourself; do you conduct yourself with pride, passion and belief?



4. Back it Up with Skills/Knowledge, Direction and Action

Having pride, passion and belief is only part of how to get promoted. It must be backed up skills and knowledge. That means having the necessary skills and knowledge to do a superb job. Having a direction is important to guide that energy generated by your passion. Otherwise, effort is wasted. Without action which is the actual completion of the task, all else is academic. You will be judged by what you do.



5. See Challenges As Opportunities

Another obvious tip on how to get promoted is to see challenges as opportunities. Very often I see young executives being thrown challenging assignments, which they choose to see as an additional chore.



If you want to be promoted, look at challenges as opportunities to shine. Do not complain about hard work, how hard you worked or if your assignment is tougher than your colleagues’. Trust me, no one wants to know how hard you work. In everyone’s mind, their own work is the hardest.



ACTION

6. What Is Your Part?

Know your part and play your part. What is your role? Are you an implementer? Or are you a leader? Know exactly what you need to do in order for your unit to achieve its goals. Knowing your part means being a team player. No one can succeed without help from others. We all need the support of colleagues. When the team succeeds, you succeed too.



7. Do Your Best NOW I consider this as one of the most important tip on how to get promoted. Do your best NOW. Today. This week’s tasks and projects. Do not bask in the glory of your previous work. That is gone. In all likelihood, no one else cares about it especially your bosses.


Do not think too much about future projects that are not implemented yet. That is in the future. It is not here yet. Focus on DOING your best NOW. It determines how you are being judged. When you reflect too much on the past and think too much about the future, you forget to focus on the NOW.



8. Do More Than Necessary If you want to know how to get promoted, do more than the necessary. That means volunteering for work and taking the initiative to make a job better. It also means not sitting around waiting for work to come to you.


Bosses like people who can help them solve problems. Even if the problem is not yours, but if you feel you can be of help and have the expertise to solve it, then volunteer to help. You become the team’s competitive advantage when you do that. And bosses like people who give their unit an advantage over the others. Helping your team stay ahead is then helping you stay ahead too.



9. Do Work from The Next Level Up

If you continue doing work for your current position then you truly deserve your current position. People who know how to get promoted know that if you want the position next level up, you start doing some of those work from that level now. If you are a senior executive now, do some work that is only expected of an assistant manager (assuming that is the next level up). This allows you to demonstrate that you are capable of that position already.



Obviously, there are zillions of tips out there on how to get promoted. These are some of those that I deem to be obvious and not practiced enough by career success seeking newbies. Putting these into practice would greatly increase your chances of a promotion.



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Long Yun Siang or Long, as he is popularly known runs http://career-success-for-newbies.com/ with his wife Dorena as their way of paying it forward. Their website – based on their real life experiences - provides tips, tools and advise for newbies pursuing career success.

Happiness in Life: You Deserve it!

Achieving your own happiness is the best measure of how well you are living your life and enjoying your relationships. You can learn how to be happier and more fulfilled in everything you do.



Everyone is Different

Happiness in life is like a smorgasbord. If 100 people went to a smorgasbord and each put food on their plate in the quantity and mix that each felt would be most pleasing to him, every plate would be different. Even a husband and wife would go up to the smorgasbord and come back with plates that looked completely different. Happiness is the same way. Each person requires a particular combination of those ingredients to feel the very best about him or herself.

Listen to Your Heart

And your mix is changing continually. If you went to the same smorgasbord every day for a year, you probably would come back with a different plateful of food each time. Each day-sometimes each hour-only you can tell what it takes to make you happy. Therefore, the only way to judge whether a job, a relationship, an investment, or any decision, is right for you is to get in touch with your feelings and listen to your heart.

Be True to Yourself

You’re true to yourself only when you follow your inner guiding light, when you listen to what Ralph Waldo Emerson called the “still, small voice within.” You’re being the very best person you can be only when you have the courage and the fortitude to allow your definition of happiness, whatever it may be, to be the guiding light of every part of your life.

There Are No Limits

A very important point on the subject of happiness is whether or not you feel that you “deserve” to be happy.

Accept the notion that you deserve all the happiness in life you can honestly attain through the application of your talents and abilities. The more you like and respect yourself, the more deserving you will feel of the good things in life. And the more deserving you feel, the more likely you will attain and hold on to the happiness you are working toward.

Make Happiness Your Key Measure

You should make finding happiness in life the organizing principle of your life. Compare every possible action and decision you make against your standard of happiness to see whether that action would make you happier or unhappier. Soon, you will discover that almost all of the problems in your life come from choices that you have made – or are currently making – that do not contribute to your happiness.

Pay the Price

Of course, there are countless times when you will have to do little things that don’t make you happy along the way toward those larger things that make you very happy indeed. We call this paying the price of success in advance. You must pay your dues. Sometimes these interim steps don’t make you happy directly, but the happiness you achieve from attaining your goal will be so great that it totally overwhelms the temporary inconveniences and dissatisfactions you have to endure in order to get there.

Action Exercises

Here are three steps you can take immediately to put these ideas into action.

First, accept that you deserve all the joy and happiness you can possibly achieve through your own efforts.

Second, make your own happiness the chief organizing principle of your life and judge everything against that standard. Follow your inner guiding light.

Third, be willing to work hard and pay the price for the satisfaction and rewards you desire. Always go the extra mile and your success will be assured.

☆ ▒ Merry Christmas 2010 and Happy New Year 2011...圣诞+新年快乐...▒★




We Wish You A Merry Christmas




We wish you a merry Christmas

We wish you a merry Christmas

We wish you a merry Christmas

And a happy New Year.

Glad tidings we bring

To you and your kin;

Glad tidings for Christmas

And a happy New Year!



We want some figgy pudding

We want some figgy pudding

We want some figgy pudding

Please bring it right here!

Glad tidings we bring

To you and your kin;

Glad tidings for Christmas

And a happy New Year!



We won't go until we get some

We won't go until we get some

We won't go until we get some

So bring it out here!

Glad tidings we bring

To you and your kin;

Glad tidings for Christmas

And a happy New Year!



We wish you a Merry Christmas

We wish you a Merry Christmas

We wish you a Merry Christmas

And a happy New Year.

Glad tidings we bring

To you and your kin;

Glad tidings for Christmas

And a happy New Year!


 
"We Wish You a Merry Christmas" is a popular secular 16th century English carol from West Country of England. It is one of the few traditional holiday carols that makes mention of the New Year's celebration.



In the days of Olde England, groups of traveling singers would entertain for food or pay. These groups were called "waits" and were extremely popular at Christmastime. We Wish You a Merry Christmas is one of these old tunes.



We wish you a Merry Christmas History has its roots in England. However the author and the composer of the song still remains unknown to the whole world. Therefore the date of the publication of the song is not known. This song We wish you a Merry Christmas actually reflects the Christmas tradition of showering gifts on the people who wandered from house to house, singing these Christmas songs to please the wealthy people of the community.




Wednesday, December 8, 2010

Steve Jobs 十句給年輕人的說話

1.領袖和跟風者的區別就在於創新。


創新無極限!只要敢想,沒有什麼不可能,立即跳出思維的框框吧。如果你正處於一個上升的朝陽行業,那麼嘗試去尋找更有效的解決方案:更招消費者喜愛、 更簡潔的商業模式。如果你處於一個日漸萎縮的行業,那麼趕緊在自己變得跟不上時代之前抽身而出,去換個工作或者轉換行業。不要拖延,立刻開始創新!


2.成為卓越的代名詞,很多人並不能適合需要傑出素質的環境。

成功沒有捷徑。你必須把卓越轉變成你身上的一個特質。最大限度的發揮你的天賦、才能、技巧,把其他所有人甩在你後面。高標準嚴格自己,把注意力集中在那些將會改變一切的細節上。變得卓越並不艱難,從現在開始盡自己最大能力去做,你會發現生活將給你驚人的回報。


3.成就一番偉業的唯一途徑就是熱愛自己的事業。如果你還沒能找到讓自己熱愛的事業,繼續尋找,不要放棄。跟隨自己的心,總有一天你會找到的。

我把這段話濃縮為:“做我所愛”。去尋找一個能給你的生命帶來意義、價值和讓你感覺充實的事業。擁有使命感和目標感才能給生命帶來意義、價值和充實。 這不僅對你的健康和壽命有益處,而且即使在你處於困境的時候你也會感覺良好。在每週一的早上,你能不能利索的爬起來並且對工作日充滿期待?如果不能,那麼 你得重新去尋找。你會感覺得到你是不是真的找到了。


4.並不是每個人都需要種植自己的糧食,也不是每個人都需要做自己穿的衣服,我們說著別人發明的語言,使用別人發明的數學……我們一直在使用別人的成果。使用人類的已有經驗和知識來進行發明創造,是一件很了不起的事情。

帶著責任感生活,嘗試為這個世界帶來點有意義的事情,為更高尚的事情做點貢獻。這樣你會發現生活更加有意義,生命不再枯燥。需要我們去做的事情很多。 告訴其他人你的計畫,不要鼓吹,也不要自以為是,更不能盲目狂熱,那樣只會把人們嚇跑,當然,你也不要害怕成為榜樣,要抓住出頭的機會讓人們知道你的所作 所為。


5.佛教中有一句話:初學者的心態;擁有初學者的心態是件了不起的事情。

不要迷惑於表像而要洞察事務的本質,初學者的心態是行動派的禪宗。所謂初學者的心態是指,不要無端猜測、不要期望、不要武斷也不要偏見。初學者的心態正如一個新生兒面對這個世界一樣,永遠充滿好奇、求知欲、讚歎。


6.我們認為看電視的時候,人的大腦基本停止工作,打開電腦的時候,大腦才開始運轉。

過去十年中,大量的理論研究表明,電視對人的精神和心智是有害的。大多數電視觀眾都知道這個壞習慣會浪費時間並且使大腦變得遲鈍,但是他們還是選擇呆 在電視機前面。關掉電視吧,給自己省點腦細胞。還有,電腦也會讓你的大腦秀逗,不信的話你去跟那些一天花8小時玩第一視角射擊遊戲、汽車拉力遊戲、角色扮 演遊戲的人聊聊看,你也會得出這個結論的。


7.我是我所知唯一一個在一年中失去2.5億美元的人……這對我的成長很有幫助。

犯錯誤不等於錯誤。從來沒有哪個成功的人沒有失敗過或者犯過錯誤,相反,成功的人都是犯了錯誤之後,做出改正,然後下次就不會再錯了,他們把錯誤當成一個警告而不是萬劫不復的失敗。從不犯錯意味著從來沒有真正活過。


8.我願意把我所有的科技去換取和蘇格拉底相處的一個下午。

十幾年來,世界各地的書店裏湧現出海量的關於歷史人物的書籍。這些人物包括蘇格拉底、達芬奇、哥白尼、達爾文以及愛因斯坦成為人們靈感的燈塔,而蘇格 拉底排在第一位。西塞羅評價蘇格拉底說:“他把哲學從高山仰止高高在上的學科變得與人休戚相關。”把蘇格拉底的原則運用到你的生活、工作、學習以及人際關 系上吧,這不是關於蘇格拉底,這是關於你自己,以及關於你如何給你每天的生活帶來更多的真善美。


9.活著就是為了改變世界,難道還有其他原因嗎?

你是否知道在你的生命中,有什麼使命是一定要達成的?你知不知道在你喝一杯咖啡或者做些無意義事情的時候,這些使命又蒙上了一層灰塵?我們生來就隨身 帶著一件東西,這件東西指示著我們的渴望、興趣、熱情以及好奇心,這就是使命。你不需要任何權威來評斷你的使命,沒有任何老闆、老師、父母、牧師以及任何 權威可以幫你來決定。你需要靠你自己來尋找這個獨特的使命。


10.你的時間有限,所以不要為別人而活。不要被教條所限,不要活在別人的觀念裏。不要讓別人的意見左右自己內心的聲音。最重要的是,勇敢的去追隨自己的心靈和直覺,只有自己的心靈和直覺才知道你自己的真實想法,其他一切都是次要。


你是否已經厭倦了為別人而活?不要猶豫,這是你的生活,你擁有絕對的自主權來決定如何生活,不要被其他人的所作所為所束縛。給自己一個培養自己創造力的機會,不要害怕,不要擔心。過自己選擇的生活,做自己的老闆!

不要被教條所限,要聽從自己內心的聲音,去做自己想做的事。 

Monday, December 6, 2010

99种语文说我爱你

1. English (英语) - I love you

2. Afrikaans (南非地方语言) - Ek het jou lief

3. Albanian (阿尔巴尼亚语) - Te dua

4. Arabic (阿拉伯语) - Ana behibak (给予男性), Ana behibek (给予女性)

5. Armenian (亚美尼亚语)- Yes kez sirumen

6. Bambara - M'bi fe

7. Bangla (孟加拉语)- Aamee tuma ke bhalo aashi

8. Belarusian(白俄罗斯语) - Ya tabe kahayu

9. Bisaya (菲律宾地方语言)- Nahigugma ako kanimo

10. Bulgarian (保加利亚语)- Obicham te

11. Cambodian (柬语)- Soro lahn nhee ah

12. Cantonese Chinese (粤语)- Ngo oiy ney a

13. Catalan (西班牙地方语言)- T'estimo

14. Cheyenne (美国印地安语言)- Ne mohotatse

15. Chichewa - Ndimakukonda

16. Corsican (法属地中海岛屿地方语言)- Ti tengu caru (给予男性)

17. Creole - Mi aime jou

18. Croatian (克罗地亚语)- Volim te

19. Czech (捷克语)- Miluji te

20. Danish (丹麦语)- Jeg Elsker Dig

21. Dutch (荷兰语)- Ik hou van jou

22. Esperanto (世界语)- Mi amas vin

23. Estonian (埃莎尼亚语)- Ma armastan sind

24. Ethiopian (埃塞尔比亚语)- Afgreki'

25. Faroese (丹麦属法罗尔群岛地方语言)- Eg elski teg

26. Farsi (波斯语)- Doset daram

27. Filipino (菲律宾语)- Mahal kita

28. Finnish (芬兰语)- Mina rakastan sinua

29. French (法语)- Je t'aime, Je t'adore

30. Gaelic (苏格兰地方语言)- Ta gra agam ort

31. Georgian (格鲁吉亚语)- Mikvarhar

32. German (德语)- Ich liebe dich

33. Greek (希腊语)- S'agapo

34. Gujarati (印度地方语言)- Hoo thunay prem karoo choo

35. Hiligaynon - Palangga ko ikaw

36. Hawaiian (夏威宜地方语言)- Aloha wau ia oi

37. Hebrew (稀柏莱语)- Ani ohev otah (给予女性), Ani ohev et otha (给予男性)

38. Hiligaynon - Guina higugma ko ikaw

39. Hindi (兴地语)- Hum Tumhe Pyar Karte hae

40. Hmong - Kuv hlub koj

41. Hopi - Nu' umi unangwa'ta

42. Hungarian (匈牙利语)- Szeretlek

43. Icelandic (冰岛语)- Eg elska tig

44. Ilonggo - Palangga ko ikaw

45. Indonesian (印尼语)- Saya cinta padamu

46. Inuit (格林兰岛地方语言)- Negligevapse

47. Irish (爱尔兰语)- Taim i' ngra leat

48. Italian (意大利语)- Ti amo

49. Japanese (日本语)- Aishiteru

50. Kannada (印度地方语言)- Naanu ninna preetisuttene

51. Kapampangan (菲律宾地方语言)- Kaluguran daka

52. Kiswahili (非洲语言)- Nakupenda

53. Konkani (印度地方语言)- Tu magel moga cho

54. Korean (韩语)- Sarang Heyo

55. Latin (拉丁语)- Te amo

56. Latvian (拉托维亚语)- Es tevi miilu

57. Lebanese (黎巴嫩语)- Bahibak

58. Lithuanian (立陶宛语)- Tave myliu

59. Malay (马来语)- Saya cintakan mu / Aku cinta padamu

60. Malayalam (印度地方语言)- Njan Ninne Premikunnu

61. Mandarin Chinese (中文)- Wo ai ni

62. Marathi (印度地方语言)- Me tula prem karto

63. Mohawk - Kanbhik

64. Moroccan (摩洛哥语)- Ana moajaba bik

65. Nahuatl - Ni mits neki

66. Navaho - Ayor anosh'ni

67. Norwegian (挪威语)- Jeg Elsker Deg

68. Pandacan - Syota na kita!!

69. Pangasinan - Inaru Taka

70. Papiamento - Mi ta stimabo

71. Pig Latin - Iay ovlay ouyay

72. Polish (波兰语)- Kocham Ciebie

73. Portuguese (葡萄牙语)- Eu te amo

74. Romanian (罗马尼亚语)- Te ubesk

75. Russian (俄罗斯语)- Ya tebya liubliu

76. Scot Gaelic (苏格兰地方语言)- Tha gra\dh agam ort

77. Serbian (塞尔维亚语)- Volim te

78. Setswana - Ke a go rata

79. Sign Language (手语)- ,\,,/ (represents position of fingers when signing'I Love You')

80. Sindhi (巴基斯坦地方语言)- Maa tokhe pyar kendo ahyan

81. Sioux - Techihhila

82. Slovak (斯洛伐克语)- Lu`bim ta

83. Slovenian (斯洛文尼亚语)- Ljubim te

84. Spanish (西班牙语)- Te quiero / Te amo

85. Swahili (非洲地方语言)- Ninapenda wewe

86. Swedish (瑞典语)- Jag alskar dig

87. Swiss-German (瑞士德语)- Ich lieb Di

88. Taiwanese (台语)- Wa ga ei li

89. Tahitian (大希地地方语言)- Ua Here Vau Ia Oe

90. Tamil (印度地方语言)- Nan unnai kathalikaraen

91. Telugu (印度地方语言)- Nenu ninnu premistunnanu

92. Thai (泰语)- Chan rak khun (to male), Phom rak khun (to female)

93. Turkish (土尔其语)- Seni Seviyorum

94. Ukrainian (乌克兰语)- Ya tebe kahayu

95 .Urdu (印度地方语言)- mai aap say pyaar karta hoo

96. Vietnamese (越南语)- Anh ye^u em (给予女性), Em ye^u anh (给予男性)

97. Welsh (威尔士语)- 'Rwy'n dy garu

98. Yiddish - Ikh hob dikh

99. Yoruba - Mo ni fe

Friday, December 3, 2010

The 9 Most Annoying Types Of People On Facebook

Here are 9 of the most annoying types of people you will find on Facebook. Although it is not listed, I’m thinking I would fit into the stalker category.
















Upcoming Movies 2011



學會心理溝通原則15條

一、講出來


尤其是坦白的講出來你內心的感受、感情、痛苦、想法和期望,但絕對不是批評、責備、抱怨、攻擊。


二、不批評、不責備、不抱怨、不攻擊、不說教

批評、責備、抱怨、攻擊這些都是溝通的劊子手,只會使事情惡化。


三、互相尊重

只有給予對方尊重才有溝通,若對方不尊重你時,你也要適當的請求對方的尊重,否則很難溝通。


四、絕不口出惡言

惡言傷人,就是所謂的「禍從口出」。


五、不說不該說的話

如果說了不該說的話,往往要花費極大的代價來彌補,正是所謂的「一言既出,駟馬難追」、「病從口入,禍從口出」甚至於還可能造成無可彌補的終生遺憾哩!所以溝通不能夠信口雌黃、口無遮攔,但是完全不說話,有時後也會變得更惡劣。


六、情緒中不要溝通,尤其是不能夠做決定

情緒中的溝通常常無好話,既理不清,也講不明,尤其在情緒中,很容易衝動而失去理性,如:吵的不可開交的夫妻、反目成仇的父母子女、對峙已久的上司下屬...尤其是不能夠在情緒中做出情緒性、衝動性的「決定」,這很容易讓事情不可挽回,令人後悔!


七、理性的溝通,不理性不要溝通

不理性只有爭執的份,不會有結果,更不可能有好結果,所以,這種溝通無濟於事。


八、覺知

不只是溝通才需要覺知,一切都需要。如果自己說錯了話、做錯了事,如不想造成無可彌補的傷害時,最好的辦法是什麼?!「我錯了」,這就是一種覺知。


九、承認我錯了

承認我錯了是溝通的消毒劑,可解凍、改善與轉化溝通的問題,就一句:我錯了!勾銷了多少 人的新仇舊恨,化解掉多少年打不開的死結,讓人豁然開朗,放下武器, 重新面對自己,開始重新思考人生,甚至於我是誰?在這浩瀚的宇宙洪流裡,人最在意的就是〝我〞,如果有人不尊重我、打壓我、欺負我或侮辱我時,即使是親如 父子,都可能反目成仇,偏淚一點的,離家出走還算什麼,死給你看的例子都屢見不鮮哩!


十、說對不起!!

說對不起,不代表我真的做了什麼天大的錯誤或傷天害理的事,而是一種軟化劑,使事情終有「轉圜」的餘地,甚至於還可以創造「天堂」。其實有時候你也真的是大錯特錯,死不認錯就是一件大錯特錯的事。


十一、讓奇蹟發生

如今自己願意互相認錯,就是在替自己與家人創造了天堂與奇蹟,化不可能為可能。

十二、愛

一切都是愛,愛是最偉大的治療師。


十三、等待轉機

如果沒有轉機,就要等待,急只會治絲益棼,當然,不要空等待成果就會從天下掉下來,還是要你自己去努力,但是努力並不一定會有結果,或捨本逐末,但若不努力時,你將什麼都沒有。


十四、耐心

等待唯一不可少的是耐心,有志者事竟成。



十五、智能

智能使人不執著,而且福至心靈。


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Wish you A Merry Christmas and HaPpy New YeaR 2011




與成功的人越多互動;便越接近成功

與成功的人越多互動便越接近成功,大概就是指這個吧!和不一樣的人在一起,就會有不一樣的人生在現實生活中,你和誰在一起的確很重要,甚至能改變你的成長軌跡,決定你的人生成敗。



和什麼樣的人在一起,就會有什麼樣的人生。



和勤奮的人在一起,你不會懶惰;



和積極的人在一起,你不會消沈;



與智者同行,你會不同凡響;



與高人為伍,你能登上巔峰。



科學家研究認為:「人是唯一能接受暗示的動物。」積極的暗示,會對人的情緒和生理狀態產生良好的影響,激發人的內在潛能,發揮人的超常水平,使人進取,催人奮進。遠離消極的人吧!否則,他們會在不知不覺中偷走你的夢想,使你漸漸頹廢,變得平庸。積極的人像太陽,照到哪兒哪兒亮;消極的人像月亮,初一十五不一樣。一個好伴侶。有時他們一個甜美的笑容,一句溫馨的問候,就能使你的人生與眾不同,光彩照人。



生活中最不幸的是:由於你身邊缺乏積極進取的人,缺少遠見卓識的人,使你的人生變得平平庸庸,黯然失色。有句話說得好,你是誰並不重要,重要的是你和誰在一起。



古有「孟母三遷」,足以說明和誰在一起的確很重要。雄鷹在雞窩中長大,就會失落的本領,怎能博擊長空,飛翔藍天?野狼在羊群中成長,也會「愛上羊」而喪失狼性,怎能叱翅風雲,馳騁大地?



原本你很優秀,由於周圍那些消極的人影響了你,使你缺乏向上的壓力,喪失前進的動力而變得俗不可耐,如此平庸。讀好書,交高人,乃人生兩大幸事。人生的奧妙之處就在於與人相處,攜手同行。



生活的美好之處則在於送人玫瑰,手留餘香,人生就是這樣。想和聰明的人在一起,你就得聰明;想和優秀的人在一起,你就得優秀。善於發現別人的優點,並把它轉化成自己的長處,你就會成為聰明人;善於把握人生的機遇,並把它轉化成自己的機遇,你就會成為優秀者。



對他人的成功像對待自己的成功一樣充滿熱情。學最好的別人,做最好的自己。借人之智,成就自己,此乃成功之道。和不一樣的人在一起,就會有不一樣的人生。態度決定一切。有什麼樣的態度? 就有什麼樣的未來;性格決定命運。有什麼樣的性格,就有什麼樣的人生。有人說,人生有三大幸運:上學時遇到好老師,工作時遇到一位好師傅,成家時遇到好伴侶。人生歷程中,若能擁有相知相惜的好朋友,更是可遇不可求!



珍惜生命中所有的幸運與機緣。

Thursday, December 2, 2010

贈你夠用一輩子的話

明槍易躲,暗箭難防,背後算計你的小人永遠不會消失,這是中國特色,小人不可得罪,同樣小人也不可饒恕,這是萬世不變的真理,說到底小人也有心小的一面,對待這種人要穩準狠,你可以裝做什麼也沒發生,天下太平,萬事大吉,然後來個明修棧道,暗渡陳倉,以毒攻毒,讓小子知道:小人也不是誰都可以做的,做好人要有水準,做小人同樣有難度。




對待愛你的人一定要尊重,愛你是有原因的,不要問為什麼,接受的同時要用加倍的關愛回報,但是千萬不要欺騙人家的感情,哪怕你對人家沒興趣,哪怕人家長得醜一點,這是你用錢買不來的財富。記住:輕視人家付出的情感就等於蔑視自己,玩物喪志,玩人喪德,愛人是一種美德。



遇事不要急於下結論,即便有了答案也要等等,也許有更好的解決方式,站在不同的角度就有不同答案,要學會換位思維,特別是在遇到麻煩的時候,千萬要學會等一等,靠一靠,很多時候不但麻煩化解了,說不准好運也來了。




說話要用腦子,敏事慎言,話多無益,嘴只是一件揚聲器而已,平時一定要注意監督,控制好調頻旋鈕和音控開關,否則會給自己帶來許多麻煩。講話不要只顧一時痛快,信口開河,以為人家給你笑臉就是欣賞,沒完沒了的把掏心窩子的話都講出來,結果讓人家徹底摸清了家底。還偷著笑你。




對小人一定要忍讓,退一步海闊天空,實在不行把屬於自己的空間也送給他們,讓他們如鶯歌燕舞般陶醉吧。俗話說大人大度量,不把俗事放在心裡,小人鼠肚雞腸,惹著小人就等與惹了麻煩,天底下頂數小人惹不起。直到現在我也沒想出更好的辦法戰勝小人,不知道敬而遠之是否可行。




要學會大事化小,小事化了,把複雜的事情盡量簡單處理,千萬不要把簡單的事複雜化。掌握辦事效率是一門學問,要控制好節奏。



這世道沒有無緣無故的愛,也沒有無緣無故的恨,不要參與評論任何人,做到心中有數就可以了。所謂蓋棺論定的道理多簡單,就是有超之過急。誰也沒有理論依據來介定好人與壞蛋,其實就是利益關係的問題。




只有花掉的那部分錢才是真正屬於你的財富,你就是家纏萬貫,生時捨不得吃,捨不得穿,倆眼一閉,剩下的錢你知道誰花了才怪,冤不冤。還有那些省吃儉用的貪官,好好的高官不做,結果因貪返貧,一分錢沒花著還搭上個人財產全部沒收,慘不慘。




做事情一定要事先設立道德底線,小偷也清楚有些東西是絕對不能偷的。所以說事情萬萬不可做絕,落井下石的事絕對不要幹,給別人讓出退路就等於自己前進了。




對於那些經常找你麻煩甚至欺負你的人,能忍則忍,沒必要時刻與莽夫過不去,但一定要給他攢著,新仇舊怨積累起來,正義和真理就屬於你了,那麼瞅準機會一定要徹底教訓他一次,在法律賦予的權限以內,往死裡整,往死裡揍,讓小子永遠記住:除了你爹,沒人會慣你這些臭毛病。




有些人習慣了佔你小便宜,小人小肚腸,大人大度量,有機會坑他一把大的,出一次大血,同樣讓他記住:天下根本就沒什麼免費的午餐,哪有白揀的便宜讓你賺。




背後誇獎你的人,知道了,要珍藏在心裡,這裡面很少有水分。當面誇獎你那叫奉承,再難聽些叫獻媚,你可以一笑而過,就當什麼也沒發生,也許不久就有求於你。對於那種當眾誇獎你的人,就疏忽不得了,也許你轉過身去,就用指頭戳你。掌握一條原則:逢人多貶自己,少誇別人,選先評優的時候除外。




小恩小惠攢多了就是一個大窟窿,只要接受就一定要找機會回報,行下春風望夏雨,付出就是為了收穫,其實就是一個簡單的種子與果實的關係。千萬別讓天真給害了,記住:人生如戲,都在尋找利益的平衡,只有平衡的遊戲才有可能玩下去。




患有心理疾病的人是不負法律責任的,可以沒有理由的咬你一口,所以對待瘋狗級的人物要敬而遠之,保持不來往,不交流,退一步,海闊天空,相信瘋狂也是一種人格,雖不值得尊重,但自有其存在的道理,生物鏈少不了這一環。




做一個人生的觀光客吧,說到底只要與人為善,以德服人,離是非遠點,靠家人近點,便有了心安,有了愜意。




樂觀的心態來自寬容,來自大度,來自善解人意,來自與世無爭。




壞心情是失眠時折磨出來的,其實現實並沒有你想的那樣糟糕,生命有高峰也有低谷,根本沒有一帆風順的人生,鄧小平怎麼樣,三起三落,最後還不是凡事他說了算。



所謂的緣分無非只有善惡兩種,珍惜善的,也不要絕對排斥惡的,相信擦肩而過也是緣吧,全世界近60億人口,碰上誰也不容易,所以遇到惡緣,也要試著寬容,給對方一次機會,不可以上來就全盤否定。




不要讓事業上的不順影響家人,更不要讓家庭的糾紛影響事業。那樣做很不划算,家人和事業都受影響,甚至損失。男人要善於扛事,要把眼淚嚥下去。




待人接物要擺正自己的位置,不可以老把自己當人物,老拿自己當領導,老把自己當富翁,老以為自己是情聖,老是自我感覺良好,即便真是小有作為,業績斐然,也要謹慎,要虛懷若谷,要大智若愚,其實人的最終結局都是一樣的,只是你把自己看複雜了。說句俗話:千萬別把自己當回事。




騙你一次的人絕不會放棄第二次騙你的機會,對騙子不要抱任何幻想。



樂觀的心態來自寬容,來自大度,來自善解人意,來自與世無爭。




騙你一次的人絕不會放棄第二次騙你的機會,對騙子不要抱任何幻想。
 

♥ A letter from MOM and DAD 一封父母亲的信 ♥

I saw this in Facebook, when I watch it, I'm touchy. So, I share with all of you
A meaningful video worth watching and sharing to worlds. I cried wen I saw it for the 1st time.......This video really touched my heart ♥
看了这值得分享的短片,我心里非常感触。。。爸妈,我爱你们♥





My Child,

When I get old, I hope you understand and have patience with me


In case I break a plate,

or spill soup on the table because I'm loosing my eyesight,

I hope you don't yell at me.

Older people are sensitive.

..always having selfpity when you yell


When my hearing gets worse and i cant hear what you're saying,

I hope you don't call me "Deaf!"

please repeat what you said or write it down



I'm sorry, my Child.

...I'm getting older

When my knees get weaker,

I hope you have the patience to help me get up

Like how I used to help you while you were little,

Learning how to walk.



Please bear with me

When I keep repeating myself like a broken record,

I hope you just keep listening to me

Please don't make fun of me

or

get sick of listening to me





Do you remember when you were little and you wanted a balloon?

You repeated youself over and over until you got what you wanted



...... Please also pardon my smell.

I smell like an old person

Please don't force me to shower.

My body is weak.


 
Old people get sick easily when they're cold.

I hope i don't gross you out.



Do you remember when you were little?

I used to chase you around because you didn't want to shower.



I hope you can be patient with me

When I'm always cranky

It's all part of getting old.

You'll understand when you're older





And if you have spare time,

I hope we can talk, Even for a few minutes




I'm always all by my self all the time.

and have no one to talk to

I know you're busy with work

Even if you're not interested in any stories,

Please have time for me.





Do you remember when you were little?

I used to listen to your stories about your teddy bear.

When the time comes and I get ill and bedridden,

I hope you have the patience to take care of me.





IM SORRY

if i accidentally wet the bed or make a mess

I hope you have the patience to take care of me during the last few moments of my life

Im not going to last much longer, anyways

When the time of my death comes,

I hope you hold my hand and give me the strength to face death

And don't worry...

When i finally meet our Creator...

I will whisper in his ear

to BLESS you





Because you loved your Mom and Dad.

Thanks you so much for your care.

We love you.

with much love,

Mom and Dad



Please don't leave your Parents alone.

And LOVE THEM !!!



I love you MUM and DAD
爸妈,我爱你们♥

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